I want to learn more about apology
Recommended Reading:
- apology mediation in divorce mediation and other contexts
- apologies and healing relationships
- communication between those who were victims and those who offended
- self forgiveness and mourning
- workplace apologies
- medical negligence apologies
- apologies and personal responsibility
- international apologies
- apology news
Recommended Reading (including authors etc)
- apology mediation in divorce mediation and other contexts: What It Means To Be Sorry (article by Carl Schneider)
- healing relationships: The Power of Apology (extract of book by Beverly Engel)
- communication between those who were victims and those who offended: 40 Cases Restorative Justice & Victim-Offender Mediation : (Free electronic book edited by Paul Crosland and Marian Liebmann) (NB Restorative Justice Consortium)
- self forgiveness and mourning: (Marshall Rosenberg's 'Nonviolent Communication -a Language of Life', Chapter 9 - Connecting Compassionately with Ourselves)
- workplace apologies: The One Minute Apology (extract of book by Ken Blanchard)
- separating taking responsibility from taking legal liability: US medical campaign - SorryWorks Coalition
- apologies and personal responsibility: (powerpoint presentation of Stephen Covey's The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People Chapter 4; slide 9 onwards)
- international apologies: imagined apology for slavery (From the novel, The Apologist, by Jay Rayner)
- apology news (edited by Paul Crosland)
Apologies are:
- asked for in many different ways.
- given in many different ways.
- sometimes part of a power-relationship
- sometimes about respecting our common humanity.
Is your interest in apology connected to:
- ideas about right and wrong?
- feelings of blame and guilt?
- feelings of shame and depression?
and / or
- communicating with compassion?
- understanding actions and the results of those actions?
- offering something that will help you both?
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