sorting it out between you when you're ready, go

communication options

To hold both peoples needs at the same time and work with both is difficult for all of us. No wonder that many people choose to have a mediator help ensure that everyone’s needs get heard.

We also have the responsibility of doing our own mediating to meet our own needs for fairness and balance.

1. I'd like to spend longer working alone to be clear what I am requesting.
2. I'm interested in discussing with a mediator, how we might arrange a mediation meeting, mediated  telephone conference, mediated exchange of letters...
3. At present I prefer communication without the help of a mediator

My strategy in getting my communication needs met is to...